A few days have passed since I met the baby I’ve been hoping to meet for a long time. I should be happy to meet my cute baby, but I don’t have time to think that my baby is cute. Why is he crying? Do babies cry so much? Why is he in a bad mood? Shouldn’t he sleep more? Moms who have to deal with a crying baby 24 hours a day are filled with questions and anxiety. Here are some experiences of experienced moms with babies who keep crying.
Why is he always crying? He’s only a month old and I don’t have time to think he’s cute…
I have a baby boy who is one month old today.
I know I shouldn’t say this, but I’m starting to lose the ability to think he’s cute.He’s almost always crying except when he’s sleeping.
Or rather, even though he’s a newborn, he doesn’t sleep much…
I’ve filled his stomach, checked his diaper and room temperature, and even when I hold him, he still cries He
tends to be constipated, so I thought he was uncomfortable in his stomach, so I massaged him, and when I thought he’d finally feel refreshed and be able to sleep, he’s still crying.
Normally, you should see him in a better mood, right?
My child hardly has that time, and I’m even scared that he’ll wake up.
I’m a mother who doesn’t think he’s cute except when he’s sleeping…I
‘m currently visiting my parents’ house, but I have to go back soon, and I can’t help
but feel anxious about this now Until he was born, I was looking forward to living with my baby, but it’s not what I expected, and I’m thinking the worst things, like wanting to go back to when he was in my stomach, and how long
I have to keep doing it What should I do?
How can I love my baby more?
After a difficult pregnancy, you finally get to meet your baby after giving birth. You were looking forward to life with your baby, but you just can’t find him cute.
Babies are supposed to sleep a lot, right? They can be in a good mood when they’re awake, right? So why is he always crying? You can’t find him cute except when he’s sleeping.
When this question was posted on “Mamari Q,” a Q&A app used by women who are raising children or pregnant, it received a lot of kind words from other moms.
Don’t worry, I was in the same situation.
There were a lot of other moms who felt the same way, so just knowing that you’re not the only one can make you feel a little better.
Do babies cry this much? Don’t they laugh?
What, babies cry this much?
They don’t laugh? They don’t sleep?
I wanted to see them so much…
Why, why…
I was so upset that I cried and became hysterical…
You’re not the only one feeling this way!
There were a lot of other moms who felt the same way, so just knowing that you’re not the only one can make you feel a little better.
Do babies cry this much? Don’t they laugh?
What, babies cry this much?
They don’t laugh? They don’t sleep?
I wanted to see them so much…
Why, why…
I was so upset that I cried and became hysterical…
You’re not the only one feeling this way!
It seems that there are babies who don’t stop crying even if the diapers, milk, room temperature, etc. are perfect, just like the mother who asked the question. Some mothers, especially those who are raising their child alone, may wonder why everything is perfect, but most babies often cry for no apparent reason.
When I’m awake I usually cry
He would cry even when he wasn’t breastfeeding or in a diaper, or when he was hot or cold. The midwife said that he was crying because he felt uncomfortable, and he didn’t know what it was for, and he didn’t know why.
I’ve been crying for a long time but I don’t know why
It was hard for about two months. I still don’t
know why he was crying. I
couldn’t figure it out no matter how much I thought about it, so I just held him mindlessly at the time.
Is it a lie that babies sleep all the time?
Many mothers think that babies, especially those who are still young, spend most of the day sleeping, but in reality, this is not the case for some babies.
If the baby does not sleep, the mother’s sleep time will also decrease, which can lead to fatigue and stress.
It’s a lie that babies just sleep…
It’s a lie that babies just sleep all the time. My child was crying all the time too.
Spending more time crying than sleeping
If he spent more time crying than sleeping, I gradually started to not find him cute anymore…
It might be a while before you see him in a good mood
When you look at pictures of babies shown by other mothers, you tend to think that babies smile a lot. However, it seems that it is difficult to see babies smiling or in a good mood when they are still young.
Experienced mothers give advice that babies will start to smile a little if you soothe them after they are 2 to 3 months old .
I could see facial expressions from around 2 months old.
He laughed when he was about 3 months old!
But when he was about 3 months old, he started laughing and I gradually understood why he was crying, and I started to think he was cute. Now I can’t help but find him cute every day.
Advice from experienced moms
There were also many posts with advice from moms who had the same difficult experience as the questioner, whose babies were constantly crying. It’s reassuring to know that you’re not alone.
Try to postpone your trip home
I was afraid that the baby would wake up.
I had terrible maternity blues, and I was finally able to spend time alone with my child from about two months after birth! It
was harder than I thought, so I’m postponing my trip home.
I plan to finally go back when my child is four months old!
In situations like this, I think you should use whatever help you can.
If you are going to give birth at your parents’ home, moms recommend extending the time a little and spending it at your parents’ home.
Let’s take a break
There’s nothing wrong with his milk, diapers, or room temperature, but I don’t know why he’s crying, and when I hold him and can’t do anything, I ask his mom to hold him so I can take a little break!
Even if it’s just for a little while, taking some time away from your baby can help you change your mood. Moms, too, shouldn’t push themselves too hard! Please take a short break.
It’ll be okay because one day you’ll think it’s cute!
Right now, you may be so busy holding your baby who is constantly crying without knowing why that you don’t have time to think how cute he is.
But your baby won’t just cry when he’s awake. He’ll cry less and sleep longer. He’ll start laughing and talking… just thinking about how cute he is makes you grin.
Don’t worry. One day you’ll think he’s cute. Other moms have had the same experience!
I wasn’t sure if I would look cute, but now I look really cute!
Giving her a breast was uncomfortable, but it made her more important than me.
When my son was a newborn, I felt uncomfortable breastfeeding him. I tried to take care of him with a sense of duty to protect him. But
now that he’s one year old, I love him so much and he’s so cute, and he’s more important to me than I am.
